The Prayer Porch

Category: Porch Reflections

  • The Power of Small Acts of Generosity

    The Power of Small Acts of Generosity

    Generosity doesn’t always come wrapped in a donation or a grand gesture. Often, it’s found in the smallest acts.It may be a kind word. It could be a moment of patience. It might be the willingness to truly listen when someone needs to be heard. It’s the gift of presence. It’s the offering of grace when others might offer judgment. It’s the courage to give even when life feels uncertain.

    Time and attention have become our most valuable currencies in today’s world. Generosity of spirit offers both a radical and healing approach. It’s choosing to respond gently when it would be easier to react sharply. It’s offering forgiveness, encouragement, or understanding especially when no one is watching.

    Generosity begins in the heart. It’s not about giving because we have enough, but because we are enough. When we give from a place of love and faith, something sacred happens: joy multiplies. It ripples outward, transforming not just the receiver but the giver too.

    As we move through our days, may we look for small ways to live generously. Let us be generous with our time. Use our words wisely. Be attentive in our listening. Share our love freely. The world grows kinder when we do.

    Lord, teach us to give not from abundance, but from love. Let our hearts be generous with our words, our patience, and our presence. May we remember that kindness multiplies when shared.

    What’s one small way you can practice generosity today – with your time, your words, or your heart?

  • Civil Disobedience and Conscience: A Modern Reflection

    Civil Disobedience and Conscience: A Modern Reflection

    I step out onto my little back porch – the dusk settling over the trees, the hush before voices rise. On this threshold between inside and out, I’m drawn to a stirring in my spirit. I remember a 19th-century man from Concord, MA who dared to question law and power. He did this by refusing to pay unjust taxes. His name was Henry David Thoreau. Henry was an American naturalist, essayist, poet, and philosopher. A leading transcendentalist, he is best known for his book Walden. It is a reflection upon simple living in natural surroundings. He is also renowned for his essay “Civil Disobedience,” which argues in favor of citizen disobedience against an unjust state.

    Thoreau believed that “that government is best which governs least.” He also thought that “that government which governs not at all” would eventually be true. He argued for the primacy of conscience over blind obedience. He saw that participating in injustice even by compliance has the ability to corrupt the soul. Thus, he refused to pay a poll tax that funded a government complicit in slavery and aggressive war.

    Many will gather this year on October 18, 2025 for No Kings Day. This day is a modern echo of Thoreau’s conviction that true freedom requires accountability. The movement asserts that power does not belong to monarchs or unchecked rulers. Power belongs to the people who live by conscience and community.

    On my porch, I sense the same quiet courage Thoreau once wrote about. It is the kind that begins not in crowds or slogans. It begins in silence. Resistance often starts with stillness. It is a whispered prayer. It is a question that refuses to be silenced. It is a heart that chooses what is right even when it is not easy.

    ✦ Then and Now, Side by Side

    AspectThoreau’s TimeOur Time
    InjusticeSlavery, unjust warsCivil rights, truth, equality
    ConscienceOne man in jail for refusing injusticeMany voices rising for justice
    CourageMoral resistancePeaceful action
    Spiritual focusIntegrity and truth before GodFaith and justice intertwined
    • Sit quietly tonight. Let the air around you settle.
    • Ask yourself: What authority shapes my choices? Where must I resist?
    • Pray for courage — not anger, but steady conviction.
    • Listen for the voice that calls you to act with peace, not pride.
    • Choose one small act that reflects integrity: a letter, a donation, a conversation, a prayer.

    🕊️ A Prayer for Courage and Conscience

    O God of justice and mercy,
    Let our voices, our breath, our small steps be part of Your work.
    Grant us the courage to stand when power grows unjust. Help us to resist with love, not hatred. We will yield our conscience to You alone.
    May we walk in freedom, grounded in truth and guided by peace.
    Amen.

    As we stand for justice and conscience, may we also stand for safety and peace. Civil disobedience, in its truest form, is never about destruction – it’s about devotion to what is right and human. When we act, may we do so with wisdom, empathy, and restraint. We should remember that the little eyes watching us learn from how we respond to the world.

    Our children will one day inherit the society we shape today. Let them see that courage can be kind. Let them see that conviction can coexist with compassion.

    Porch Question:

    How can your quiet courage become the light your children see and remember?

  • Finding Stillness: Inner Peace on My Back Porch

    Finding Stillness: Inner Peace on My Back Porch

    On my little back porch – The quiet moments come before the world fully wakes. The sunlight spilling gently across the floorboards. The leaves rustling, whispering their morning prayer. This porch has become a sacred space – a threshold between the outer world and the inner one.

    As I settle into that quiet space, I find myself drawn to the life and wisdom of St. Teresa of Ávila, a 16th-century nun, mystic, and reformer whose words still stir hearts centuries later. Teresa’s writings invite us to explore prayer. They also encourage us to delve into the deep interior life. It is that tender meeting place where our soul communes with God.

    In her masterpiece, The Interior Castle, St. Teresa describes the soul as a grand castle made of crystal. It is full of rooms that lead ever inward toward the center. This is the place where God dwells.

    She wrote that many people live only in the outer courtyards, busy and distracted, unaware of the beauty within. The spiritual journey, she said, involves moving deeper into those inner rooms. This is achieved through prayer, humility, and love. These practices help us rest in God’s presence at the very heart of our being.

    That image feels so close to what I experience on the porch. When I quiet my mind and let the noise settle, I can feel myself moving inward. I transition from thought, to breath, to stillness. This brings me closer to the One who loves me completely.

    St. Teresa also compared prayer to watering a garden. At first, she said, it takes effort – drawing water by hand, tending each plant carefully. But over time, as we grow in trust, the garden begins to water itself through rain – grace freely given.

    In her words:

    “The soul is like a garden, and the Lord delights to walk among its flowers.”

    Maybe our porch time is like that early watering. These are quiet moments when we show up weary or hopeful. We trust that something beautiful is being tended in us, even when we can’t yet see it blooming.

    🪷 How to Pray Like Teresa

    Here are a few simple ways to bring her spirit to your own porch:

    1. Begin with Stillness
    Sit quietly. Notice your breath. Let the outer rooms of your mind settle. You don’t need to do anything – just be present.

    2. Offer Humble Prayer
    Teresa reminds us that humility is the doorway to God’s love. Speak simply, as if to a dear friend. Tell Him your joys, your weariness, your longing.

    3. Rest in Silence
    After speaking, stay a moment longer. Don’t rush away. This is the heart of prayer – the space where words end and presence begins.

    Perhaps the porch – that small, humble space between inside and out – is a reflection of Teresa’s inner castle. It’s where heaven meets earth, where our busyness softens into prayer.

    Today, you don’t have to find perfection in your spiritual life. Just step into the next “room.” Move a little deeper into your own heart. Trust that God is already waiting there.

    Lord,
    Teach me to enter the quiet places of my heart.
    Help me to water the garden of my soul with gentle trust.
    May I meet You there in stillness and simplicity. Let me learn to rest in Your love. Teresa did this, faithful and free.
    Amen.

    Which “room” of your inner life are you being invited into today — stillness, trust, surrender, or joy?

  • Opening Your Heart: Lessons from a Hen

    Opening Your Heart: Lessons from a Hen

    Sometimes, grace arrives in the most surprising forms – like a small hen showing up on your doorstep.

    That’s exactly what happened to my daughter this week. Out of nowhere, a sweet hen began appearing at her door every morning. No one nearby seemed to know where she came from. She simply arrived, as if she had decided, “This is my home now.”

    For several days, the hen returned faithfully. A sweet bird with nowhere to belong, looking for safety and care. My daughter and her husband watched her come and go. Finally, they decided to give her a proper coop. It was a new home. They gave her shelter, food, and a place to rest.

    And isn’t that just how love often begins?
    We notice something or someone in need.
    We think about it for a while, maybe hesitate.
    And then, when our hearts soften just enough – we make room.

    Sometimes God sends us reminders of His own tenderness in feathers and quiet persistence. This little hen came looking for a home. She brought a message. Love often finds us first. It asks gently if we have space to care, to trust, and to nurture again.


    Maybe something in your life has been quietly showing up.
    What would it look like to open the door, to make room, to offer a small space of belonging?


    Thank You Lord for the tender reminders You send in simple ways. You place a small creature at the door. You offer a moment of quiet invitation.
    Teach us to notice what seeks shelter near us,
    to open our hearts with kindness and care.
    May our homes – and our lives –
    be places where Your love finds welcome.
    Amen.



  • The Power of Forgiveness: Healing Through Accountability

    The Power of Forgiveness: Healing Through Accountability

    Forgiveness is one of the hardest, most powerful gifts we can give. It asks us to soften where we’ve been hurt. It also calls the other person to face the impact of their actions.

    Sometimes we think forgiveness means “forgetting” or pretending it didn’t matter. But true forgiveness isn’t about excusing. It’s about naming the hurt honestly and then making space for healing on both sides.

    In relationships, forgiveness often works best when it’s paired with accountability. An apology can open the door, but reflection and change are what keep that door open. Growth happens when we pause long enough to ask: How did my words or actions affect someone else? What can I do to repair the harm and live differently going forward?

    Forgiveness doesn’t erase the past. It creates the possibility of a different future.

    Think about a time you’ve been hurt. Did the other person’s willingness to change impact your ability to forgive? How might accountability and compassion walk hand in hand in your own relationships?

    God, help me to be honest about what hurts, and courageous enough to forgive. Teach me how to hold others accountable with love. Help me keep my heart open to the possibility of growth for myself and for those around me. Amen.

    Where in your life right now could forgiveness open the door to growth?

  • Finding Peace in Uncertain Times

    Finding Peace in Uncertain Times

    It’s no secret that life in America feels unsettled right now. The news is heavy, conversations can quickly become divided, and many of us carry quiet worries about the future. It’s hard not to feel the tension.

    Even in seasons like this, there are places of steadiness we can return to. These include kindness, listening, and the simple act of being present with one another. These aren’t small things. They are bridges that help us move beyond the noise and back toward our shared humanity.

    Scripture reminds us of peace for those who walk in faith. It says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you” (John 14:27). For all of us, peace can become a practice. No matter our background, we can choose calm when everything around us feels uncertain.

    The world around us can feel shaky. Slowing down is important. Choosing how we respond can be a quiet act of courage. A kind word, a pause before reacting, or even taking time away from screens to rest – these choices matter. They remind us that while we can’t control everything, we can nurture peace within ourselves and offer it to others.

    A Porch Reflection ✨

    When was the last time you felt truly steady – even for just a moment? What helped you feel that way, and how might you return to it this week?

    End your day by naming one way you showed kindness, however small.

    Take a break from headlines today. Step outside, notice the air, the light, the quiet.

    Before a conversation that might feel tense, pause and remind yourself: “This person has fears and hopes, just like me.”

    Some families and communities find it helpful to have a prayer bowl on the coffee table. They place it in a room where they gather to pray. Whenever someone asks for prayer, they write the request on a little piece of paper. They put the paper in the bowl. When it’s time for morning or evening prayer, each person can take a few slips of paper from the bowl. They read the requests. This is also a good way to remember people we don’t see every day. We can think of children in war zones. We should also consider victims of human trafficking.

    We may not solve every challenge in our nation overnight. Together, we can create circles of peace. And when those circles overlap – porch by porch, heart by heart – something steadier begins to grow.



  • Trusting God in Life’s Uncertainties

    Trusting God in Life’s Uncertainties

    Sometimes life doesn’t unfold in neat categories. Plans fall through, outcomes aren’t clear, and we’re left holding the tension of what feels uncertain. We often want answers in black or white, right or wrong, but much of life happens in the in-between.

    It’s in these gray spaces that God often does His deepest work. Proverbs 16:9 reminds us, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” When our plans change, it’s not always about success or failure. It’s not about being right or wrong. It’s about trusting God with the middle ground.

    Gratitude becomes the practice that steadies us here. It helps us notice that even in the half-formed, unplanned, or uncertain moments, there is still good. Gratitude doesn’t erase the hard. It helps us see God’s hand at work in the midst of it.

    A Porch Reflection ✨

    Think about a time when things didn’t go exactly right—or exactly wrong. Maybe it was simply different than you planned. With hindsight, can you see a blessing that came through the “middle ground”?

    Sometimes it’s not about labeling the moment—it’s about learning to hold it with open hands and a thankful heart.

    “Lord, teach me to let go of needing every answer to be black or white. Help me to rest in the gray places, trusting that You are guiding me even there. Grow in me a spirit of gratitude, so I can see Your presence in both the planned and the unexpected. Amen.”

    Where in your life right now do you feel caught between black and white? How does gratitude shift the way you see that space?

  • Celebrate World Gratitude Day: Embrace the Power of Thankfulness

    Celebrate World Gratitude Day: Embrace the Power of Thankfulness

    September 21st is World Gratitude Day – a beautiful reminder to pause and notice the blessings that fill our lives. Gratitude isn’t just a nice thought. It’s a practice that can strengthen our hearts. It can lighten our spirits. It can even deepen our faith.

    Science has confirmed what Scripture has long told us: giving thanks changes us. Studies show gratitude boosts mental health, eases stress, and even helps our bodies heal. But more than that, God’s Word invites us to “give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Gratitude lifts our eyes from what’s missing and helps us see His goodness right here, right now.

    Simple Ways to Practice Gratitude Today 🌸

    ➡️ Write it down. Keep a gratitude journal or jot down three blessings each day.

    ➡️ Send a thank-you. Text, call or write a letter to someone who encouraged you. Be specific about how they touched your life.

    ➡️ Pause with purpose. Before meals, meetings, or bed, take a breath and name something you appreciate in that moment.

    ➡️ Spot the helpers. Even in stress, look for those who are trying to make things better.

    ➡️ Appreciate your body. Thank God for the way your body carries you, heals you, and enables you to embrace those you love.

    ➡️ Celebrate small joys. The morning sunrise, coffee with a friend, or a quiet moment on the porch – all are gifts worth noticing.

    Lord, thank You for the countless blessings You pour out each day. Teach me to see Your goodness in small things. Help me give thanks in both ease and trial. Let me carry a heart of gratitude that reflects Your love. Amen.

    ✨ Gratitude isn’t about ignoring struggles – it’s about holding them alongside the goodness that is always present. Let today be a gentle invitation to look around, notice the blessings, and give thanks.

  • Finding Joy in Your Spiritual Gifts: A Reflection on Mary and Martha

    Finding Joy in Your Spiritual Gifts: A Reflection on Mary and Martha

    Sometimes I smile when I read the story of Mary and Martha. Two sisters, both devoted to Jesus, but so very different in how they expressed their love for Him. Martha bustled around, working hard to prepare and serve. Mary sat at Jesus’ feet, soaking in His words.

    It’s easy to think one was “right” and one was “wrong.” But maybe the deeper lesson is that each of us has a different way of living out our devotion. Martha’s gift was service, hospitality, and care. Mary’s gift was presence, listening, and worship. Both loved Jesus, just in different ways.

    Not all of us are called to the same work, and that’s the beauty of it. Some of us love to bake bread or cook meals that nourish others. Some feel alive when teaching, guiding, or leading conversations. Others find joy in being the one who notices. They pray quietly and encourage with a text at just the right moment.

    Our culture often pressures us to compare – to think the loudest gift is the most important. But God delights in the quiet as much as the visible. The small prayer, the gentle kindness, the faithful service no one sees. All of it reflects His heart.

    A Gentle Reminder

    You don’t have to copy Mary or Martha. You simply have to be faithful with the gifts God has placed in you.

    • If you love to serve: your kitchen table can be an altar.
    • If you love to listen and pray: your quiet corner can be holy ground.
    • If you love to lead: your voice can guide others toward Christ.
    • If you love to create: your art, music, or craft can become worship.
    • If you love to encourage: your words can be a lifeline to weary hearts.

    Each of us brings something unique, and each gift is precious in His sight.

    Lord, thank You for the reminder that our gifts don’t need to look like anyone else. Teach us to celebrate the gifts You’ve given us, and to honor the gifts that we see in others. May we, like Mary and Martha, welcome You into our homes and hearts in the ways You’ve made us. Amen.

    🌿 As I sit on the porch today, I picture Mary quietly listening. I see Martha bustling with care. I realize the Church needs both. And it needs you too with the gifts God has entrusted to you, however ordinary they seem.

  • Welcoming the Season of Change

    Welcoming the Season of Change

    The seasons are shifting again. Summer’s warmth is slowly giving way to crisp mornings, shorter days, and the golden glow of fall. This change always stirs something in me. It’s an invitation to pause, to breathe, and to notice how God moves through the rhythms of creation.

    Just as the trees release their leaves, we are reminded that change is part of life. Sometimes it’s gentle, sometimes it’s hard, but always, God is faithful in the turning of each season. Fall invites us to slow down, savor small joys, and find gratitude even in the letting go.

    And what better way to mark the season than with something warm from the oven? Apples are the heart of autumn, and these apple scones capture the cozy comfort of fall days on the porch. Let them remind you of the sweetness God weaves into every season and feel blessed ✨

    Apple Cinnamon Scones with Brown Sugar Glaze 🍎

    Ingredients for the Scones:

    • 2 ½ cups all-purpose flour
    • ⅓ cup granulated sugar
    • ½ teaspoon salt
    • ½ tablespoon baking powder
    • 3 teaspoons cinnamon
    • ½ teaspoon ground nutmeg
    • ½ cup chilled butter, grated
    • 2 cups diced apple
    • ½ cup sourdough discard (or 1/2 cup Greek vanilla yogurt)
    • ½ cup applesauce
    • 1 egg
    • 4 tablespoons sweet cream

    Brown Sugar Glaze:

    • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
    • 2 tablespoons melted butter
    • ¾ cup brown sugar
    • ½ cup confectioners’ sugar
    • 2 tablespoons sweet cream
    • 1 teaspoon cinnamon
    • Pinch of salt

    Directions:

    Whisk together flour, sugar, salt, baking powder, cinnamon, and nutmeg.

    Grate the cold butter into the flour mixture. Toss until the butter pieces are evenly coated.

    Dice apples and add them on top of the flour mixture. Set aside.

    In a separate bowl, whisk together sourdough discard (or Greek yogurt), applesauce, sweet cream, egg, and vanilla until smooth.

    Gently fold wet ingredients into the flour mixture. Stir until just moistened (scone dough should resemble pie dough, not cookie dough – don’t over mix!).

    Pat dough into a 7-inch circle on parchment paper. Fold circle in half and in half again. Reshape into a 7- inch circle allowing the dough layers to stay. Cut into 8 wedges with a bench scraper, or into 16 squares from an 8-inch square.

    Place parchment on a baking sheet. Chill dough in the freezer for 5 minutes while the oven preheats to 375°F. Bake 15–17 minutes, until edges are crisp and centers are cooked through.

    While scones bake, whisk together glaze ingredients until smooth.

    Drizzle glaze over warm scones. Enjoy fresh or wrap individually to keep scones fresh for a few days.

    As you savor these apple scones, let they remind you that change, though sometimes bittersweet, often brings new beauty. Just as the apples ripen in their time, good things are being ripened in each of us by God. This happens even in the letting go. 🍂